today is my birthday, and I hardly thought about her. but when I did, I think about how she told me she had a birthday gift for me when we did talk. now I wonder what it was, and if she even remembered it's my birthday. grief is so weird.
Last updated on:2025-10-30T05:03:31+05:30
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do you think part of you still hopes she remembered? or is it more about missing what that moment could’ve been?
sometimes I hope she does remember, and just think about how she regrets us not talking because of how she made me feel. but I also do miss what we could've been.
grief really does come in weird waves. i try to just let those thoughts pass through instead of fighting them — like, “okay, that memory showed up, but it doesn’t own me anymore.
exactly ! you get it
on my birthday last year, i caught myself wondering if my ex still remembered too. it’s wild how even when you’re healing, the brain still loops back to those little promises that never got finished.