hi guys, so 2.5 months I had my break up, my ex broke up with me. since then, I have begged her to come back, have maintained no contact for max 12 days twice, both the time, she started calling a lot and when I tried to talk to her she pulled back. So, now I have decided now matter what happens, I just want to disappear from her life, so that I can find peace as well. I'll try to post a lot here because I have no one else to talk to or share. I hope I find really good people here who can relate and help me with this. my goal is to post atleast once daily here, help out others in need and get help from others as well. I want to around those who care about me.
Last updated on:2025-10-30T01:11:02+05:30
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do you think she reaches out because she actually misses you, or just because she’s used to you being there when she wants?
I think she just comes back to see if I'm still reachable or not. I don't think she genuinely cares about me. she just comes back to get validation.
talking it out like this helps a lot. i started journaling after my breakup and it kinda became my daily release. just don’t hold it all in, it eats you up slowly.
i begged my ex too and it felt like i was losing myself every time he’d pull back after reaching out. deciding to disappear for your own peace… that’s actually strength
Post as much as you want. There was a time I'd post like every two days and it was super helpful. Getting to speak with people that relate with your situation is super helpful
you got this! we are going through the same. no contact is hard but sometimes is the best thing to do to keep our peace and mental health.