i dont know how to pick myself back up and i domt know how to get over her. any tips or anything?????
Last updated on:2025-10-30T07:34:03+05:30
i dont know how to pick myself back up and i domt know how to get over her. any tips or anything?????
Last updated on:2025-10-30T07:34:03+05:30
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was it a sudden breakup or did you kinda see it coming? sometimes how it ended changes how you start healing.
when i felt like that, i stopped trying to “get over” her and just focused on getting through one day at a time. don’t rush healing, just keep showing up for yourself bit by bit.
i didn’t even know who i was without him. it took time, but little things—music, walks, even crying—started helping me breathe again
Trust this is for the better😊 Please find a therapist to give you guidance as well.
how do i do it tho?
i also want to say im going to gym more and im trying to distract myself but i always keep thinking about her anyway i do. we are in a gc together and it doesnt rlly help but i dont want to leave because they are my friends too and i dont wsnt her to win. she is an avoidant i think but she is getting reslly reslly close with another guy and its killing me, they are only friends but he liekd her and she doesnt. but they way she treats him looks like she dord like him. he isnt her type at all but it seems she is so obsessed over him
Focus on yourself and improving your life. Forget about them.