Today was my day 29 of no contact and I broke it. I just wanted to say goodbye to him as I'm moving out from this city. He was one of the few people I got to know on the first few weeks moving here. I don't care if he will read it, maybe one day he will, I just want our last contact to be a good one
Last updated on:2025-10-31T09:30:05+05:30
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did sending that message make you feel lighter, or did it stir things up again? i’m curious if it gave you the closure you hoped for.
its a good closure for you too.
New city, new life.
yeah don't feel bad no contact forever isn't always the best thing. sometimes its good to get it out say goodbye thats your heart saying it's final goodbye to the person.
don’t be too hard on yourself. breaking no contact for something meaningful isn’t failure, what matters is that your intention came from peace, not pain. that’s growth.
i broke no contact once just to say goodbye before i left too. it wasn’t even about getting them back, i just wanted peace in how it ended. sometimes you just need that soft closure for yourself