I’ve known this guy for about two months and everything felt incredible the chemistry the communication the intimacy. It all just clicked. But three days ago he broke up with me. He said it wasn’t healthy for him that he needed to focus on university and somehow I was getting in the way. He insisted it wasn’t anything I did or didn’t do even called me perfect. But if I’m so perfect why walk away?
Just yesterday he told me he misses me deeply but still believes he’s making the right decision. And I’m left wondering who gets to decide what’s right for both of us? Just last week he wrote me a letter saying how much he loved me… and now it’s silence. We barely speak and I’m trying to respect his space but it’s tearing me apart.
I’ve drowned myself in wine trying to numb the pain I feel more like a bottle than a person. Everything reminds me of him. I can’t focus I can’t function. I’m still trying to make sense of it all. I love him so much and I truly believed we could work through this together. But maybe that’s not how he sees it. Maybe it’s already over.
Last updated on:2025-10-31T02:33:14+05:30
Comments (7)
I'm really sorry about this I'm going through exactly the same thing you are pretty much and yes it sucks it seems you loved him I can't tell howbmuch he did but I can assure you one thing, if it hurts as much as you believe it does then imagine that pain turned to happiness overtime, maybe you might have him back and maybe you'll both grow apart but the best thing and I know its hard because I'm going through it too is to focus on making your life better each day, it's hard but it's worth it and maybe you will realise the love you have can be used for yourself
odio el amor
just trust in god, if it was true love he will come back
🥺
Sounds like he had someone else
People suck.
maybe he has seen someone else