He contacted me today (day 22) I had to reply. it was short but I left the door open to talk one day. I’m not sure if I want to keep no contact but I’m going to still count the days, as a reminder to keep focusing on me and to contribute to this community.
Last updated on:2025-11-01T01:45:03+05:30
Comments (8)
what made you feel like you had to reply? just curious — sometimes the “why” behind it says a lot about where our heart still is.
you did fine. no contact isn’t about perfection, it’s about progress. keep counting the days if it helps you stay grounded it’s still your healing timeline, even with small slip-ups.
if u replied to be honest you broke no contact and would have to start counting from day 1.
I know. I reset the count
@WildSun457 and it’s normal happens all the time I reached 45 days and also responded on my second no contact now
mine reached out around day 25 and i caved too. it’s weirdly comforting but also kinda painful, like reopening a wound that just started to close. you’re handling it better than i did
I didn’t have high expectations. I am seeing this like a small step to reconnect. I know he won’t admit he misses me right away.
ur brave!!
u got this!