We are back together. We have a lot to face, his avoidant attachment, my anxiety attachment, his and my family, long distance.
But we are just tied together by god. Love is great!!
Wish me luck 🙏🏻 and I hope yall get back to your loved ones ❤️🩹
Last updated on:2025-11-02T07:24:46+05:30
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Avoidants never change. Please understand. I can tell because that's what happened to me. He will again for sure.. hurt you. It's an infinite loop. It will only drin your energy and suck into your soul. they like it. they don't love.they control. the sooner you accept it the better. Let the avoidant be gone from your life and find yourself a better person. coz you deserve better.
he's not fully avoidant, and he's aware of his issues, he wants me, even the breakup was because he got emotionally overwhelmed n tried to communicate it with me but I let my anxiety lead n I didn't understand him (long distance+). he's willing to love me n wants a future with me despite all the difficulties, n wanna heal from his traumas while I heal mine too. I'm not letting him go just because of some categorization, especially that he's communicating things clearly now.
@Saroka the road is full of thrones my dear. You better be prepared to get hurt on each step. all I can tell is that it's not easy to love someone when you don't get the love in return.
how many days did you keep the no contact ?
oh w were in and out no contact. he broke up with me 2 months ago, argued, blocked me, he apologized 2 weeks ago, we spoke only once since, and then yesterday we spoke and he decided to give us another chance because he truly loves me n sees a future with me
@Saroka oh great , happy for you, congratulations and have a strong relationship