after breaking up with him,and after days of no contact, he comes acting right and behaving right and he had me before where he could do that.....
Last updated on:2025-11-03T23:58:02+05:30
why is it always like this..?
after breaking up with him,and after days of no contact, he comes acting right and behaving right and he had me before where he could do that.....
Last updated on:2025-11-03T23:58:02+05:30
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it’s wild how they suddenly “get it” once you pull away. just remember, consistency matters more than temporary good behavior. don’t let your peace become a test for him again
it’s wild how they suddenly “get it” once you pull away. just remember, consistency matters more than temporary good behavior. don’t let your peace become a test for him again
yes I still stand on my standards and boundaries
still grounded
mine used to do the same thing disappear, act right just long enough to pull me back in, then vanish again. it messes with your head so much
he told me that he knows that I'm the one and we were meant to be even if it takes 10 years or how long he knows that he will end up with me. I was just looking at him and just wondering. but for me ain't the same, because I don't feel so. even if he is trying to act right, I don't feel like we are meeting where I'm supposed to meet with him emotionally
sometimes people just feel so comfortable having you and they believe they don't have to win you over anymore that they forget that you are a person who's feelings always need to be acknowledged and met, not just before making you theirs. they think just because they already had you, they don't need to do anything else and you will just stay with them, so when something does happen and you break up with him he put on this act again, showing you that he can be the person to meet your needs. but if he can only do that when confronted about it and without having to ask, then he isn't the one.