before no contact i already beg and plead but she still refuse even tho we still have some connection and have a walk together afterwards, she said she moved on and have other person that she thinks fulfill her needs. so finally i stoped texting for 11 days, but she texted me at day 9 asking about college so i just answer properly and not always seeing her story anymore, but all of a sudden she just removed me from her first ig. did i made a mistake
Last updated on:2025-11-06T17:23:13+05:30
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sounds like she’s figuring herself out and you’re caught in the crossfire. keep that no contact strong now. silence says more than any reply could.
reached out just enough to keep me confused, then pulled away again. it messed with my head for weeks. you didn’t do anything wrong by responding.
Continue no contact, she is just trying to get a reaction out of you, if she wanted you back in her life she would have made it clear, and not by throwing bread crumbs
I still want her back tho, it's dumb but she's really matter to me idk what to do
should i chased her before its too late or should i still go no contact, idk whats on her mind. for context reason she dumped me cause i didnt fulfill her emotional needs (texting everyday etc cause idk what to do) its my first relationship but i always show my act of service primarily when we met (weve been in a relationship for 1 year)
Whether to chase her or keep your distance really depends on what’s best for you—not just right now, but for your growth and wellbeing over time. She left because her emotional needs weren’t met, especially in terms of daily communication, which is tough to navigate when it’s your first relationship and you express love mainly through acts of service in person. Uncertainty about her thoughts is natural, but your focus should be on what you control.Your emotions can be your greatest asset or your greatest obstacle—mastering them is key. You can’t change how she feels, but you can decide how you respond. If you keep telling yourself she was “the one” and that you’ll never find someone better, healing will be much harder. Allow yourself to grieve, but reframe your story: instead of obsessing over getting her back, recognize that you are genuinely disappointed. Acknowledge your feelings—she seemed right for you, but things didn’t turn out as you hoped.Know that the right person, someone truly compatible, is out there waiting. For now, put your energy into becoming a stronger version of yourself—grow, learn, and upgrade who you are. That way, whether you reconnect down the road or new love finds you, you’ll be someone she—and anyone else—would regret losing. Focus on your own healing and let time show you what’s next.