Dating an emotionally immature man

I dated my ex for 1 year. At the very start of the relationship, he texted his ex to flaunt me off and make her jealous. When his ex asked for his pictures, he chose the best ones and sent it to her. This happened not even a month into the relationship. He had a girl bestfriend who he has fucked who was also my friend (let's call her C) C was the one who set me and him up convincing me that he has changed (he used to fuck around before and has a body count of 20+) I believed that and dated him. 3 months into the relationship he sent me a video of himself and C. They were on the rooftop of the building he lives in (that's the place where they fucked when they were only in 10th grade) and they were fooling around and sticking to each other. We argued over that but I forgave him. 6 months into the relationship he texted C saying he missed her and her pussy and that nobody can replace her. C didn't inform me even though she's been my friend for longer than she's known him and entertained him for sometime then dismissed him (C was dating someone else ). I only got to know because my other friends told me. We faced a rough patch in our relationship but then i forgave him. I used to be into kpop and anime so I used to compliment and drool over idols and fictional characters so he said I'm a cheater too and me having a para social relationship hurts him just as much as it hurts me when he cheats. Me drooling over others was disrespectful but it possibly isn't cheating but I didn't argue and just apologised. Recently he did something disgusting again and now that I've stopped going back to him he's harassing me and forcing me to go with him to his house. I'm disappointed with myself to even think of dating a man who takes sexual intimacy and connections so lightly and fucks around just to fulfill his sexual desires. I mean I'm a virgin so why should I settle for someone like that?

Last updated on:2025-11-05T07:52:02+05:30