who’s going through a relationship with avoidant ??
Last updated on:2025-11-14T12:57:52+05:30
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who’s going through a relationship with avoidant ??
Last updated on:2025-11-14T12:57:52+05:30
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Well we broke up 4 days ago. I'm still crying
yeah it's hard especially long distance but I love her so Much one day she said she may have been led by her emotions she thanked me for whatbwe did how I treated her but she needs to focus on herself and blocked me on everything.
It's so hard top understand an avoidant... it was perfect and we decided to plan our wedding for next year, hé was overwehlmed with emotion and decided to broke up a d blocked me on everything... my future disapeared in one second... I'm in NC for one week now, hope he'll eventually réalisé
We deserve better 💜
It’s awful — especially if you only find out months into the relationship, when you finally open up your heart that they worked so hard at. Then, they disappear. It feels like everything you knew was a lie. How can they say they love us yet be fine with hurting us?
idk he even not say i love u to me first he say I have feelings but im so busy now and I really won’t to repeat me ex history u are my true person in wrong time then after a month he say im sorry don’t be mad of me but I don’t have the same feelings do u have to me !! then i go without even looking back after a week he come back saying that he wants me !!!! then after a romantic night he fade a way!! he is in my snap streak send a random streak without sending any messages and i saw him commenting in other girls videos !!!! what is that if he doesn’t want me whyyyy then he kept me!!
being with someone avoidant can make you question everything. try not to chase. give them space, but keep checking in with yourself too that’s where the clarity comes from.
it's been a month since we were together and he made me cry 8 times the whole month. miss him. we haven't broke up officially but I guess we will.
me also this is so hard and confusing iv been in a relationship with narcissist he is better than avoidant 💔💔
they’re like satan
it’s like loving someone who keeps the door half open. mine would disappear for days when things got too real. it drained me but taught me a lot about what consistency should feel like.
mine too he make me hate him and don’t trust while he’s gusting me i saw his comments on other girls videos!!!! and when I want to go he don’t let me go !!!
I did and it definitely clashed with my anxious attachment- we both had baggage and work to do on ourselves-#doomedtodestroy
how did u do that he is now just in my snap streak and don’t talk any thing instead
he say that he is soo busy in work and when I want to let him and go he don’t allow