i had a shower for the first time in 11 days. it feels so good to be able to take care of myself again. and i actually laughed, like a full, deep laugh, at something today. yeah, it still hurts. but im finding the beauty in life again, and i think that's the thing i missed the most
Last updated on:2025-11-06T03:26:00+05:30
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I have been coming here resetting my no contact date with a hope this time she will stop repeating her toxic patterns. And every same day or day 2 she begin to disrespect or use the tone that I can't take. Now she is shifting to my city for her new job we were suppose to meet but again same pattern from her. And put of the experience from 8 months my brain says even if you go and meet she gonna repeat her cycle. And my heart says go and meet her and spend good time. I am stuck in this cycle. Currently she is blocked everywhere except a call. I know if we meet u have lot of questions and argument.. Any suggestions?
i think if you are comfortable enough you should meet her one last time after some time apart, and if she truly hasn't changed, just cut all contact
you did really great taking a big step to love yourself is really good proud of you
tysmmm
that’s a huge step, honestly. what do you think helped you shift into finally taking care of yourself again?
i honestly just remember that even if he doesn't love me, there are a lot of people that do. and because my love is so big, i will find my person who can hold every bit of my love
those small moments of feeling alive again? that’s healing. keep noticing them, even when the pain’s still there. it’s how it slowly fades.
I'll try then.
yes please do!!
after my breakup i went almost 2 weeks without doing anything for myself. that first shower… it felt like coming back to life a little. proud of you