My ex and I have been together for 15 1/2 years and Broke up on October 27 then he moved into his mistress's house on the Oct 31. we have a 11 year old daughter. I have been asking for dog food for a week. so he thought it would be a great to bring the new gf into are home to drop off dog food. I am do mad right now it's not funny. am I out of line to ask for her to not come into our home.That we built together
Last updated on:2025-11-07T05:48:52+05:30
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are you able to explain to him how uncomfortable it makes you feel, especially for your daughter? i wonder if he even realizes how much it’s crossing a line.
he dose he did it to make me mad. just like he took his new girlfriend and our daughter to my best friend's granddaughter's birthday party on saturday to show off the new girlfriend to my best friend.When we had only been broke up since that monday
i think it’s okay to set boundaries in your own home. you’re asking for a little respect in the place you still live and built. maybe just be firm and say, “i’d prefer she not come inside, you can leave the dog food at the door.” simple, clear, no drama.
if it could be this easy but it's not
my ex started showing up with someone new way too soon too, like right in the middle of everything we built together. it burns, especially your feelings are 100% valid.
no stop it's YOUR house not his and not the mistress the guy failed and let's be real just after 3 days of breakup he went to her house that says a lot about him DO NOT ENGAGE in their drama you have your daughter build a life around her and remember don't let temporary emotions fade what damages he did to you your relationship and your daughter's mental health