It’s all becoming too overwhelming. We were never officially together but we spent so much time together that I genuinely believed she might be the one. I felt so at ease around her talking to her felt natural and I grew to care for her deeply.
Then out of nowhere she began to pull away. She stopped wanting to talk stopped calling and slowly faded from my messages. I still see her in person at our badminton club and every time it hurts. I wake up thinking about her and she’s the last thought before I fall asleep. For the past two weeks I haven’t slept properly.
I don’t know how to cope with this heartbreak. It’s too much for me to carry. I just want the pain to stop. I need help finding a way through this.
Last updated on:2025-11-06T17:57:03+05:30
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seeing her at the club sounds rough… have you thought about taking a short break from it, or is it something that still helps you distract yourself a bit?
what helped me was giving myself permission to grieve it like it was real. cause it was, to you. take a few days to just feel it cry, write, zone out, whatever you need. then start doing tiny things that make you feel alive again, even for a minute.
this brought me back. i had a “not official” thing too and it wrecked me way worse than any real relationship. the slow fade hurts the most because you never get closure, just silence. i remember seeing her in the same friend circle after and pretending i was fine while dying inside. you’re not alone in this, i promise