I am so lost, no connection, food doesn't even taste good and I have severe insomnia- I don't want him back and had first experience of accidentally seeing him and acting like we don't know each other- it was weird. then he messaged me a reminder of the full moon which was our thing- wtf! dude I don't want to just be friends!
Last updated on:2025-11-08T05:35:03+05:30
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that full moon text sounds confusing as hell. did you end up replying, or did you just let it sit there?
him reaching out doesn’t mean you have to respond. sometimes silence is the best boundary. your brain just needs a minute to catch up to your heart it’s healing, even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.
when my ex reached out after months with some random “memory” text, it threw me right back. like bro, you can’t ghost me emotionally and then act all sentimental 😭 that empty, disconnected feeling… yeah, i remember that too. it gets easier once you stop trying to make sense of their mixed signals.