It's been 31 days of no contact; and I am so happy. I was able to accept that she is no longer the same person that I loved. I am happy for her that she was able to find the love she deserved. She cheated, yes. But, I don't want to hold onto someone out of pity. I let her go. Remember kings, In chess, the game only ends when the king falls. Sometimes, sacrificing the queen is the only way to win. Good nigh folks. See you later.
Last updated on:2025-11-08T09:25:09+05:30
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was there a moment that made it click for you like, the exact point where you finally accepted she wasn’t that same person anymore?
Of course, yes, shes cold, distant, mundane. You can feel it that she is no longer the person that you used to love. I beg for 2 months. I fought until it drained me. I just suddenly stopped and accepted that she is no longer mine.
staying no contact really is the power move. every day you don’t reach out, you remind yourself that closure comes from you, not them. keep that streak going.
Well said 😊. If i feel like i am going to text her, I just remember the disrespect.
my ex cheated too and for the longest time i held on thinking i could “fix” us. but letting her go was the real win. it’s wild how peace feels heavier at first but lighter later. proud of you for choosing yourself, fr.
I am so proud of you too, brother. We can win this 😊.
thats good the way you feel,i just dont agree on the chess part,life is not chess,you dont need to sacrifice the queen, the thing is SHE wasnt the queen for you king❤️
Damn, on point 😊.
damn I’m a few days more than you and I been struggling like crazy even knowing she seems happy with the new guy. it makes me feel less, like I wasn’t good enough
Here is my formula Acceptance+forgiveness= detachment. You really need to accept that she is no longer yours.
@Nightmare I applaud you for being able to do that so easily. how long were you both together ?
@andrew423423 we've been together for 10 years. got engaged as well. It's not easy brother, trust me. but i was able to rise. Acceptance is the key.