so recently i made up a tinder and hinge account, I’ll saw my ex on there surprisingly. And I was out at the doctors and I got banned on tinder and hinge. I have sent a appeal but haven’t heard back from them i fear that I’ll lost my accounts forever what do I do?
Last updated on:2025-11-09T10:28:20+05:30
Comments (9)
that was 8yrs relationship, he read my mind, saw thru me, b4 I say he spoke my words like he new me more then I new myself. then his x came back i couldn't share him so I cut out. I did what was best for myself but I cant forget 2yrs of fighting with my self to push him away.
let alone create another account to interact. I cant even imagine myself with anyone else let alone even liking or excepting any new connection
after my separation I feel tho its crime if I consider any other connection is it because im not gonna ever be able to get out of what broke me. I am much better recovered but back of my mind I feel he will come back. I will get very angry at 1st but I won't be able to reconnect im in that dilemma. my angry mind is fighting with my inner soft corner I can't delete him. if I completely forget myself then only maybe I can forget him. his shaken my soul in a very deep way. that every second I feel his presence i even feel il go crazy as I see him everywhere when I go to sleep. deep talks all cross my mind and thought.
make another profile.
do you think seeing your ex on there kinda triggered the whole thing for you? like, was it the ban that hurt more or just being reminded they’re out there too?
i guess the Ban really, how come she can meet new people but I’ll van and seeing her before I got ban made it worse
just wait it out a few days. those bans sometimes get reversed if you appeal. if not, try making a new one later with a different email or number. don’t stress too much — the apps aren’t going anywhere.
when my ex popped up on my hinge right after we broke up… felt like someone punched me in the gut. then when i got banned (no idea why), it weirdly made me feel like the universe was saying “no dating for you yet.” it’s frustrating, but maybe it’s giving you a pause you didn’t ask for
how do we work around it though like meeting new people I been banned on tinder and hinge but why is she allowed to go dating and not me