is he likely to come back?

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he said:

‘im gutted, but now I need to put myself first and work on becoming a better person im not happy and things wont change unless I make them but I need to do this one alone I respect you and have had the best time with you im actually sat in a puddle of tears right now so dont talk about me not respecting you, I’m the problem. I need you to look after yourself for me, okay?’

I’m heartbroken and want my boy back.

Last updated on:2025-11-12T21:41:24+05:30

Comments (13)

ChillAndLaugh666

what if I tell you I was told the same thing but he ended up.cheating on me with someone I had warned him about, then he.comes backs claiming he doesn't want to loose he is willing to work us through one day later he calls me at 5am to tell me he cannot anymore and wants us tondrift away from each other. So if I tell you you will know if his yours

BuzzFlick147
BuzzFlick147 4 mths ago

oh this is what happened to me 2 days ago! my ex broke up with me kinda out of the blue (we had several fights lately but we still loved each other). the same day he sent me hearts on whatsapp and few hours later he stood in front of my house to break up because he wants to work on himself and he wants to get mental help first. I'm so scared he will continue without me forever and lose his feelings for me over time

SnapRay783
SnapRay783 4 mths ago

sounds like you’re going through the exact same as me, wish I could DM you privately x

BuzzFlick147
BuzzFlick147 4 mths ago

@SnapRay783 sure absolutely!! maybe we can support each other through the stages

BuzzFlick147
BuzzFlick147 4 mths ago

@BuzzFlick147 oh damn I didn't know you have to have premium to be able to send dm's

SnapRay783
SnapRay783 4 mths ago

@BuzzFlick147 I don’t wanna put my socials on here. I defo think we could support each other through this though - hope you’re okay 💕

BuzzFlick147
BuzzFlick147 4 mths ago

@SnapRay783 that's what I've been thinking as well! how are u doing right now?

SnapRay783
SnapRay783 4 mths ago

@BuzzFlick147 it’s rough. his mum reached out to ask if im okay, and I told her that im struggling and hope he gets the help he needs, how are you? x

HappyHour212
HappyHour212 4 mths ago

to his defense I have been in his position and really only time will tell and if you guys are meant for each other, he'll come back into your life

SnapRay783
SnapRay783 4 mths ago

did you go back?

HappyHour212
HappyHour212 4 mths ago

@SnapRay783 unfortunately I was taking my good ol time and he just couldn't wait for me anymore

ChillAndLaugh666

hun give yourself time first, if his your you will find way to each other.

SnapRay783
SnapRay783 4 mths ago

I’m just finding it hard, 2 days ago he was telling me ‘we fight, we fix, we stay’ I’m in emotional limbo