I am not cheating to him ..but somtimes my mind was telling he might find some wrongs in this so i have to delete this and send ..for an example-I have a chat with friend .about somthing education but he sent a joke so i texted him laugh imoji ..when i screenshot and sending him my mind is telling me he might find something toget upset so i have to delete this messsage and send.today also some university councillor sent me a message asking are you working i send him studying ..and also i sent him i dont interested in that university .but i want to tell him that he message me .but mind telling me he will got that studying part wrong and tell me why did u reply ..you can even see it and ignore right ? my mind was like that .some things happen before but when i send him he saw thet replied message to studying where message .so he asked why I dont have any answer.but in my mind i dont have any kind of cheating idea ..or sending sweet message idea or any kind of timepassing idea.but i am afraid of that feeling i dont know my mind is telling me that..now he is very upset ..đđȘhow can i explain my feeling even the exaplanation will be turn to argue...what can i do now he will not trust me anymore .đ„șđ..how can i behave now.he is very upset.i just give him space now to relax.đ„ș
Last updated on:2025-11-12T13:06:17+05:30
Comments (4)
has he made you feel like you canât make small mistakes without him assuming the worst? that kind of fear doesnât come from nowhere
yes somtimes
giving him space is good, but also be kind to yourself. you didnât do anything wrong. sometimes overexplaining only makes things worse itâs okay to just let things calm down first.
i used to overthink every tiny thing i said or did around my ex because i didnât want to upset him. itâs exhausting walking on eggshells like that.