to be honest at first it was overwhelming and I felt it was harsh for me I've spent with that man three years in relationship and the day he told me I don't want to I hate you just for silly argument that wasn't even a big argument I just woke him up out of his bed I don't remember exactly the details right now but I remember it was an argument after he told me I hate you and I don't want to and we're breaking up it's the moment that I replied back and I told him okay and I replied to other man afterwards after we broke up at that time I just replied to a man that he used to call me and text me I kept him on scene too weeks because I'm loyal and I would never reply to anyone in relationship and after I got out of the relationship I replied four days and my ex came back and he told me I'm sorry and I told him there is something happening in someone talked to me but I'm not someone that you could break up with and the other day tell me I'm sorry it's both and they reaction of him was blocking me everywhere without even me letting me to actually tell him I do still love you and I want you back and I did not do anything I just replied to the man after we broke up we weren't even in a relationship blocked me everywhere three days of no contact and I've met him more of my mutual friends in job I finish my job and I went to the man that was mutas he looked at the floor three hours of the contact between me and him and the man that used to be like mutual friend and he was like I cannot tell you how I spent the four days of no contact I really had the urge to call you and I really wanted to call you but I'm not and I will end this relationship he looked at the floor he never looked at me at that moment and I never sell anything from him we've been three months of no contact I met one of my friends at the graduation and she told me he started talking to her it was a stab in my heart three years you just throw it away afterwards some of the mutual friends wanted me in a job and he knows me and he knows him he told him that I want his her number and he was like I'm gonna talk to her and I give you her number and he did not do anything of that afterwards I saw him also plus I am blocked everywhere he had his Instagram account the deactivated before right now he had done an account and blocked me on his new account and I did not know until my friends told me your ex has done new account and he's following US I felt embarrassed to be honest that man was about to actually be my fiance in a couple months and all of this happened in the Southern that man was willing to actually and he talk to my mom to be an actual fiance can you imagine and now we're former months of no contact and my question is well he be ever gonna come back and talk to me again or not?
Last updated on:2025-11-10T20:12:03+05:30
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you mentioned he talked to your mom about being engaged… do you think he was serious back then, or just saying what you wanted to hear? sometimes looking at that helps make sense of the confusion.
if someone can switch up that fast and block you everywhere, that says more about their emotional maturity than your worth. give it time. the no contact might hurt now, but it’ll help you breathe again.
i was in a relationship too, and the breakup came out of nowhere, over something tiny. i remember begging for a chance to explain myself but he just… blocked me. it’s a special kind of pain when you had plans for forever and they just vanish.