spent 3 years in relationship just to know he has gone with a girl unless than one month of no contact

🩶 Beginning & Relationship (3 Years)

I was in a serious relationship for three years — it wasn’t casual; it was deep, emotional, and felt like real partnership.

We were preparing for engagement, and he had even spoken to my family about it.

I stood by him through his studies, financial struggles, and family issues.

I was completely loyal — I never entertained anyone else or replied to any man who tried to reach out to me.



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⚡ The Breakup Incident

The breakup happened suddenly after a silly argument — I just woke him up from his sleep, nothing major.

Out of nowhere, he said:

> “I hate you. I don’t want to. We’re breaking up.”



I was shocked, but I stayed calm and simply replied:

> “Okay.”



That calm reaction seemed to hit his ego because I didn’t chase or argue.



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💬 After the Breakup

After the breakup, there was a man who had been texting me before, but I had always ignored him.

I kept him on seen for two weeks even after the breakup because I didn’t want to act impulsively.

After two weeks, I replied for just four days — nothing emotional, just normal conversation.



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🚪 His Return & the Second Explosion

Right after that, my ex came back and said he was sorry.

I told him honestly:

> “Someone talked to me, but I’m not someone you can break up with one day and come back to the next.”



Instead of understanding, he got angry again and blocked me everywhere — phone, WhatsApp, Instagram, everything.

I didn’t even get the chance to tell him I still loved him or wanted to fix things.



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🧍‍♂️ The Unexpected Encounter

A few days later, I saw him by coincidence through mutual friends.

He looked at the ground the entire time and said he had the urge to call me during those days but chose not to.

He told me he would end the relationship but couldn’t look me in the eye while saying it.

I walked away without closure, completely heartbroken.



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🕰️ Aftermath (No Contact Period)

It’s now been four months of no contact.

During this time:

I found out from a friend that he started talking to another girl shortly after.

A mutual friend later said he mentioned wanting to ask for my number again — but never did.

He created a new Instagram account, followed mutual friends, and blocked me there too.

It’s clear he still checks my circle indirectly, but refuses to face me directly.

Last updated on:2025-11-11T01:05:03+05:30