So I got told by a mutual friend that my ex went to jail I honestly think my ex took my friend's phone and texted it (because I have my ex blocked) So I was very worried obviously and I unblocked him and I asked him what was going on and of course the whole page of I need you I need you I need you came out. and that he has no one and that I'm the only person he can count on. The jail thing was false. I am so mad right now I was doing so good I'm on day four I was doing so good and then tonight I got told that falsely, and I had a moment of weakness and I unblocked him. I'm so mad at myself. I reblocked him after he was going on and on about everything going wrong in his life I told him I'm sorry that you are suffering and I wish you good luck and I reblocked him. It hurts extra more because tomorrow was supposed to be our anniversary. I just feel like I failed.
Last updated on:2025-11-11T06:58:44+05:30
Comments (5)
that’s awful. do you think he said that to guilt you or because he really wanted attention from you?
I think he's in a place where he desperately needs attention from anyone right now, especially me. He is going through a lot of different life changes and I know he just wants someone to talk to
you didn’t fail. breaking no contact once doesn’t erase your progress. it’s like falling off the wagon for a sec, not going back to square one. tomorrow might sting, but you’ll get through it.
I appreciate you 🙏
my ex once pulled a similar stunt saying he was in the hospital just to get me to break no contact. i felt stupid after falling for it but honestly, you didn’t fail you cared. that’s what makes you human