so I break up a month ago , and those 3 days I have been texting to a guy but yesterday I "unadd" him bc I was thinking he is not for me even if he was nice to me idk I felt it my gut feeling...
but later I talked to him I said I think we are not for each other but i regreted it and he said that "we cant talk anymore bc you said those things and I dont wanna have anything with you anymore" but Idk my heart was alreday "broken" and this made things worse idk why I did get so attached in 3 days of talking pls help whats wrong with me what should I do
Im feeling so bad rn.
Last updated on:2025-11-12T03:15:19+05:30
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when you say “gut feeling” that he’s not for you, is that about how you feel about him or how fast things were moving? curious what your instinct is really telling you.
Idk I dont know how to explain
he didn't seem honest with me
but today I got the news my gut feeling was right he was sending "add" to multiple girls at a time
give yourself some space and stop overthinking every feeling. your heart is still healing from the breakup, so rushing into someone else only makes it harder. focus on you first
i got super attached to someone in like a week after my breakup and then totally freaked myself out. it’s normal to feel this way, it doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you
oh yeah someone feels me ,
Idk why I got so attached tho there was only talking for 3 DAYSS!!!!
take time for yourself. reflect on why you get easily attached to people. learn what do you really want.
I want validation I know thiss is bad I learned it from my last relationship If I dont have male attention validation I dont know what to do everytime I HAVE to talk to someone that thinks Im good I have value and tell's me that.
but I never did get attached in 3 Days hell no
but rn I dont know what to do actually
@RazzFlex965 please work on your self esteem and self confidence. don’t give men the power to define you. All the things you expect from other people to say to you, say it to yourself.
@WildSun457 yeah Im trying Im journaling ,talking to my sisters etc .. but
can you give me some tips bc actually Idk what to do should I goo to therapy ??
@RazzFlex965 yes go to therapy. but it’s not magic, you need to put the time and effort to work on your issues. I’ve been to therapy for years, it has helped me to see things clearly and it’s helping me to heal from my breakup
i think you miss the feeling pf being loved?
yeah that too but I dont wanna make mistakes anymore