I just feel extremely sad.
I keep asking God if I'm doing something wrong.
I found my ex ,we broke up 3 days ago, was already getting to know someone because his Pastor recommended her to him whiles i was with him reason why he was acting weird towards me.
I'm sad,I'm not a bad person,I'm a Christian too,I literally am the typical good girl everyone thinks of.
I wonder why this can happen,maybe i should start doing the bad stuff too.
Last updated on:2025-11-11T23:33:27+05:30
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when you say he was acting weird, did you bring it up with him before? curious if there were signs you didn’t deserve to be blindsided by.
he kept telling me,he was confused...Then he stopped praying with me,studying the word or even holding conversations...things he knew were very special to me...
it was after the breakup he told me his pastor recommended the lady but he didnt know if he should tell his pastor about me so he didnt ...
it was a long distance relationship
He came for a church conference and my home country and thats how I met him again and heard all this,mind you,he came with her
Apparently the head pastor of tgeir church has adviced them to marry within the church
don’t let their choices make you change who you are. being a good person isn’t the problem, their character is. let yourself grieve, pray if it helps, and be gentle with yourself.
my ex ghosted me and started seeing someone suggested by his circle too, and i spent days begging god for answers. made me question everything about myself. you’re not bad for being kind. that confusion and sadness is real.
Hmm🥲