I really need words right now, it's about time to face this.
I've been in a 2 years relationship or should I say relationshit? 8 months ago we broke up but we're still hanging out, hooking up, and sending iloveyous. 6 months ago I found out he cheated on me for almost a year. We had no contact for a month not until he reached out the moment I was about to leave the city, I replied and guess what, we decided to get back.
We've been on and off couz sometimes I cannot take it anymore knowing that she is still with other girl. The girl didn't knew about this even if I was the who went first I know I betrayed the woman still.
Now that I'm done and ready to move forward should I tell the girl everything just to get off from my chest how sorry I am?
Last updated on:2025-11-12T04:50:33+05:30
Comments (9)
have you thought about what you really want long-term? telling her might feel like relief, but could it also stir more pain for everyone involved?
i appreciate this
I think you should tell her but you should make a deal with her to not tell the man that you told her , maybe to tell him that she did find out everything by herself and just leave him
holding onto guilt won’t help either of you. sometimes just stepping back fully and focusing on yourself is the only way to heal.
i stayed in an on/off thing for months after finding out about cheating. it eats at you, i know that weight. sending love
Please enlighten me If I need to reach out the girl for me to clean my conscience or should I let it go
relationshit 😆if u want to tell the girl and if you think you will finally be able to move on after that then you should do that.. though just dropping both of them altogether from your mind and just focusing on ur life is the power move. all the best.
do you think I still have to tell the girl, I won't share everything anyway, More on I really really feel sorryyyyy
@jessang16 no dont be sorry for her. she can deal on her own. if thats ur reason then dont. if the reason is for your own closure then go ahead