So struggling with my own dignity and self respect- as I begged for him sometimes in public where I would see hi.. Now it's over and I am embarrassed- He always gave conflicting messages- one minute love me and the next I was invisible 🫥 really struggling to come to terms with that, now that I've gone no contact 7 days this time
Last updated on:2025-11-11T23:12:04+05:30
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when he sent those conflicting messages, did you notice a pattern? sometimes spotting it helps make sense of the confusion
yes he wasn't getting supply elsewhere
it’s okay to feel embarrassed, that’s normal. just keep focusing on yourself these 7 days, small wins like this really add up
iv done the same unpacked his bags 4 times then hated myself for stopping him go then finally I said go get lost in Dec 24 then started talking again felt disgusted how desperate could have i been then blocked him in August 25 til now iv kept to my word like a promise I made to never ever to reach out to him even if I bleed to death in tears missing him. I made it this far and I know its possible. I chose to love myself instead.
i’ve been there begging for scraps of attention in public, feeling invisible the next minute. it’s so confusing and humiliating… but 7 days no contact is already huge progress
You are doing so well, you've gone no contact for 7 days. thats amazing! Keep going. You have got this