He left me in April. Then came back and we started hooking up again. At first I was fine with it just being physical I kept my emotions out of it. But then he told me he was still in love with me and that pulled me back in emotionally.
Now he says he wants to be exclusive but he’s not ready to commit because his studies are overwhelming. He says he wants me and that he’ll commit the moment I move to his city.
I’m exhausted. I’m hurting. He keeps ghosting me and I’m so emotionally drained. It’s been a year of this back and forth and I don’t know how much more I can take.
Last updated on:2025-11-11T16:16:03+05:30
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do you actually believe he’ll commit if you move to his city? or does that feel like another thing he’s dangling to keep you waiting?
mine did the same said he “wasn’t ready” but wanted me close anyway. kept pulling me back just to disappear again. i remember being so drained i could barely recognize myself. it’s like they want the comfort of you without the responsibility of loving you.
Tell him you can’t live without him and then ghost him for the same amount of time and come back like nothing happened. Yall do it so often just put it permanently in the calendar