each time i leave he comeback (after he search for the replacement and actually flirt with bad women online and even thinking he can find someone else better than me in dating apps) i discovered that each time i relapsed and went back to him
please i want no judgement but this person is actually still married but separated with her 😔 and now i am struggling like i know i should go but each time i feel weak and fear being alone
Last updated on:2025-11-13T06:24:24+05:30
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when he comes back, does he actually take accountability or just act like nothing happened? i’m asking ‘cause that part usually says a lot about what his real intentions are.
he just act like nothing happens and even when i express my feelings always we end up fighting i feel unheard
he acts like nothing or blames me
let’s connect and so you could distract yourself from him
that would be a big of a help i need help and support
that push-pull mess can mess with your head so bad. what helped me a bit was blocking him during the weak moments. not forever, just long enough to breathe and remember how it feels when he’s gone. it’s not easy but the distance gives a tiny bit of power back.
i am strong when i am away but he wouldn't let me be he always comes back
i kept going back to someone who was half-in, half-out too. he’d disappear, flirt around, then come back like nothing happened. it took me forever to realize i wasn’t missing him, i was missing the comfort i thought he gave me. it hurts like hell when you know you deserve better but your heart still wants the chaos
this one he does almost everything yet doesn't give me what i want emotions or even a clear place i am in the gray place
I totally understand how you feel. I'm going through the same loop. because I feel so lonely I work from home I don't have many friends I end up relapsing and going back to him due to boredness. if I had more money I would just go out and do stuff by myself. try to shuffle through it. if you get the urge to talk to him pick three different people other than him to text.
i am so sad and heart broken and angry
trauma bond is no fucking joke babe! keep away from him for a while if meant to be he will do it right and get divorced first- look up trauma bond and it will explain why you keep going back.
he jut wouldn't let me go i did everything i could i even blocked him but he kept coming back and now he end up insulting me and said it was anger