so part of what ruined us was alcohol and excessive drinking- my fault but he always supplied it - even when I would tell him not to he would bring and offer it- I know it was ultimately my fault for drinking too much but when I asked him for help he left me
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when you asked him for help, did he leave right away or was it more like he slowly pulled away? that part of your story hit me hard, just wondering how it played out for you.
He did back and forth ghost then show back with a bottle then ghost it sucked
it’s okay to admit that both things can be true you made mistakes, and he didn’t help either. try not to carry all the guilt alone. healing’s easier when you stop trying to rewrite the past and just accept what was.
my ex used to feed into my bad habits too, like he knew what i was struggling with but still brought the very thing i was trying to quit. it’s such a mind trip because you start blaming yourself when really, both people had a part in it.