My boyfriend and I have argued a couple times because he watches 🌽 and overall girls, and he promised me he wouldn't watch that anymore, but I checked his phone and he's still seeing women and watching adult content + a bunch of anime girls (I know they're just animations but still hurts) he says he doesn't feel attracted towards them and just wants to relieve himself, but he already has me...
Last updated on:2025-11-13T02:55:29+05:30
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does he understand why it hurts you, or does he just brush it off like it’s no big deal? that usually says a lot about whether someone actually cares to change.
he says he's sorry and won't do it again (he continues) and just keeps going the conversation short after
that kind of thing chips away at trust fast. if he keeps doing it after saying he wouldn’t, it’s okay to stop trying to justify it in your head. what helped me was asking myself if i actually felt emotionally safe with him not just if he said the right things.
my ex used to say the same thing — that it “didn’t mean anything” and it was just to relieve stress. but it messed with my head so bad. it’s not even about the act, it’s the disrespect after promising he wouldn’t. i feel you so much on this
What did you do about it, I mean, how did you deal with it?