No contact is so underrated. Suddenly you stop chasing or begging for love. You beg because you want to save the relationship, but it is not really worth it specifically if the issue is about cheating. There is no such thing as fall out of love. There is a reason behind that. If you feel that your partner is cold, detached, please talk to them and be honest. it's easy to accept if they will tell you the real reason rather than questioning your self what was wrong.
I am happy that I was able to detach completely. I feel vendicated when all of my intuitions and guts were right.
happy healing. I hope that you will be able to find peace in your mind. Take it easy. there is no shortcut. I believe in you.
Last updated on:2025-11-14T04:55:15+05:30
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when you say you detached completely, was there a moment that made it click for you? like the exact point you knew you were done begging?
Yup, when the truth surfaced and she admitted it. That's my turning point. I beg at first because i think I was the reason.
yeah, no contact really is underrated. it’s not about punishing them, it’s about getting your sanity back. every time i wanted to reach out, i reminded myself how drained i felt when i did. distance gives clarity.
begging someone who cheated on me too, thinking if i just loved harder it would fix things. but the peace that came after going no contact? unreal. i finally started breathing again. proud of you for choosing yourself
I am so proud of you, brother.
this gives me hope for the future, thank you.
We can win this.