i just found out that when i texted him crying and begging to fix things , and during almost a month , he was still talking with the girl he was having a talking stage with during no contact , they were still talking and flirting with each other and having fun while i ignored my pain and tried to understand his avoidance personality more and tried to do everything just to not loose us again
Last updated on:2025-11-14T01:53:28+05:30
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did he ever admit to it or are you piecing it together now? like, were they already talking before the breakup or did it start right after? trying to get a sense of whether he was lining that up while you were still trying.
we broke up then they started talking but after 2 months i called him back begging him to fix things beetween us and we tried for two weeks ( we didn’t get back together we were just trying)and during these two weeks they were still talking
i know it hurts like hell right now, but please don’t twist yourself up trying to make sense of his choices. people who actually care don’t keep someone else in the background while you’re begging for clarity. it usually helps me to stop asking “why” and start reminding myself “that’s who he chose to be.”
i remember finding out my ex was still talking to the girl he told me “was just a friend” while i was losing my mind trying to “heal the connection.” i felt so stupid for caring that much when he clearly didn’t. it’s such a sick feeling realizing you were fighting for something he’d already replaced.
Grieve cry and do not seek support from the one who caused the pain
he doesn’t even feel sorry or bad for the pain i am having because of him he thinks i am dramatic, and he made me question my pain even
Hmm,Im so sorry about this