So like I said in previous posts we drank alot: during those drunken conversations I divulged deep secrets from my adolescence- and previous relationships and the difficultiesIhad when my husband was dieing- wish I never did that because I thought he was safe place and he hated me and looked less at me for it -even throwing in my face at times
Last updated on:2025-11-14T04:37:02+05:30
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did he start using those things against you only when things got bad, or was it happening slowly even before? sometimes the pattern says a lot about who they really were.
that kind of hurt takes a while to untangle. i’ve learned to remind myself that my honesty wasn’t the problem his lack of care was. you were real, and that’s something to keep, not regret.
i did the same with my ex… i told him things i’d never said out loud before. thought it meant we were close, that he got me. but when the relationship turned, he used those same confessions like weapons. it’s such a deep kind of betrayal like he broke into a part of me i never meant to give away.
dont let this thought -secrets + smear campaign -hold power over you. wishing u best
how?
so the man with my deepest secrets and personal struggles is now on a smear campaign of hate towards me!