My boyfriend is very sweet to me, treats me well, and does nice things for me, but he still looks at girls online even after telling me many times that he wouldn't do it again. I tried to break up but came running to his arms not even 3 days after. I'm trying to go no contact while still being in the relationship, but I'm not sure (going crazy rn) I don't know what to do, the amount of emotional dependence I have on him is crazy
Last updated on:2025-11-14T07:25:03+05:30
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do you think you’d still want to stay with him if you trusted yourself more than you trusted him?
when i was stuck in that loop, what helped a bit was stepping back and watching what i did every time i felt that panic. like, noticing the urge to run back and just sitting with it for a sec before acting. it didn’t fix everything, but it slowed the cycle down.
my ex used to do the same said i was all he wanted, but still couldn’t stop looking at other girls online. it broke something in me, like i wasn’t enough even when i was right there. i remember that pull, the way i’d run back just to feel safe again. you’re not crazy, that kind of emotional whiplash messes with your head.
girl just break up with him again. u cant do the no contact during a relationship it never works trust me u could try deattaching while u r still together tho and when u r ready break up
Know your worth girl! he shouldn’t be looking at other girls. but also going no contact during a relationship will be hard on him aswell, i think you should do the best thing you think but don’t leave him on delivered it’s probably going to stress him out a lot :)
I may sound like a bad person, but if he makes me suffer, he should feel that pain