his mum texted me yesterday acknowledging how hard this is for the both of us.
I want to reach out to him to see that he’s okay and I don’t want him to have to ‘work on himself’ alone
I miss him like a hole in my heart
Last updated on:2025-11-14T05:59:02+05:30
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when you think about reaching out, do you hope it’ll bring you closer again, or do you just want to know he’s okay?
they always do that,using siblings and family to reach out. stay strong.
it’s okay to miss him and still not act on it. sometimes the kindest thing you can do for both of you is let space do its job, even when it hurts like hell.
my ex's family told me I would always be a part of theirs, 2 weeks later I was removed from all social media and they walk past me as if I never existed. You got this without them as hard as it may seem now!
this happened to me and it broke me I spent 5 years with people that could delete and forget me in a week
when my ex’s mom texted me after we split… that hit different. like this weird mix of comfort and pain. i missed him so bad but also knew reaching out would just rip the wound open again. i feel that ache you described so muc
I want him back and I think he still loves me, his last words to me were ‘look after yourself for me, okay?’ I’m hurting so bad and I want to reach out to him so badly
@SnapRay783 what was the reason for yalls breakup and who did broke it off? i think it depends on the two factors when or who to reach out first. if he broke up with you, i think it's best you give him the space and time so he can rethink your loss