The man I once believed was my everything ended up using me for two years. I gave him nothing but kindness love and care yet he dragged me through the mud and treated me horribly knowing he could take advantage of me whenever it suited him. He constantly made everything about himself never did anything thoughtful for me and repeatedly broke up with me leaving me emotionally shattered each time only to say he wanted to be single.
All I’ve ever wanted is someone who shares my interests someone who loves '80s music has that laid-back country vibe and genuinely enjoys the same things I do. A man who appreciates a woman who takes care of him and in return doesn’t ignore her or use her. I’m tired of being treated like I don’t matter. I just want something real mutual and respectful.
Last updated on:2025-11-13T19:39:02+05:30
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i get how exhausting it is to always be the one who gives. what helped me was stepping back from dating until i could tell the difference between being chosen and being used. you’ll feel that difference one day, i promise.
when you think about those two years, is there a part of you that still feels stuck in trying to understand why he did it? or are you more focused on trying to move forward now?
i was with someone who drained me the same way every breakup like a new wound, and every “i miss you” just pulling me back in. i remember thinking, “why do i keep loving someone who doesn’t see me?” you deserve so much better than being somebody’s convenience.