it just seems like I can't accept the fact that we are over, I know he won't come but I still can't I imagine fake conversation between us everyday, I keep talking to him in my head and what iam going to say if he asks me about this or that, and what am I gonna say when he comes back , this shit can't get out of my head, I know I shouldn't think like that but I just can't , iam fully aware that we are fully over but I just don't know how to stop
Last updated on:2025-11-14T17:19:33+05:30
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My Goal is acceptance too. It has been two months & I am starten to lose hope & finally stopping to watch those ex back gurus
when you imagine those talks, is it more about wanting closure or hoping he’ll change his mind?
sometimes when my head won’t stop running those “what if” convos i write them out. like, let them spill. it weirdly helps quiet the noise a bit when it’s on paper instead of looping in my brain.
god, i used to do that too. full fake convos in my head, planning what i’d say if he texted, what i’d wear if we ran into each other. it’s like your brain refuses to accept the silence. i get it, it’s torture.
I hope that you will be able to fully embrace and accept that you are no longer his world. Acceptance+ forgiveness= detachment. I used thst formula to completely detach. I know it's hard, but I believe in you.
I am the same. Feels unreal, from talking every day to strangers
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