He’s messaged me saying “hey leila how’s everything going” to which i left him on delivered and then he said “when do you think we can meet up” (we made plans to give each other our stuff back but i physically couldn’t get out of bed so i cancelled) and then just 6 mins ago he’s said “I hope everything’s okay”
I just want to go AWOL every time i think of him i feel sick knowing we aren’t tg anymore, my friend is dropping his stuff off tmr but i haven’t told him but i could always just get my friend to text him saying he’s stuff is outside.
What do i do!
Last updated on:2025-11-15T00:22:07+05:30
Comments (6)
My ex has ever texted me on WhatsApp and I ignored. then later during the same day he called me and I picked up.. The first thing he said is that he has decided to call me since I am not answering his messages... and guess what? We got back together the same day...
does the thought of seeing him make you feel worse than just dropping his stuff without speaking? like is it the face to face part that hits the hardest?
when i was in that place, i let someone else handle the exchange because seeing him would’ve wrecked me. do whatever keeps your nervous system the least on fire right now. you don’t owe him a perfectly composed reply.
i remember that stomach-drop feeling when the ex suddenly gets gentle and polite right when you’re barely holding yourself together. my ex used to do the whole “hope you’re okay” thing too and it messed with my head so bad. it’s so heavy when they still feel close but also completely gone
yes short yes no answer to piss them off. I did same
try to reply calmly. short answers. don’t overthink.