i feel the urge to contact him

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i really miss him right now. i wish i could just chat with him like we used to. i know i can't, he never did the same for me, his behavior made me physically ill during the relationship, but idk i just miss the happy memories. it feels so empty now

Last updated on:2025-11-15T02:11:02+05:30

Comments (6)

Jimjimcho
Jimjimcho 4 mths ago

when you think about chatting with him, is it the actual person you miss or the version of him you only ever got in the good moments?

unknownPP
unknownPP 4 mths ago

when i get like this, i remind myself i’m missing who i thought they were, not the person who made me sick. it doesn’t fix it, but it keeps me grounded when the memories feel too soft to fight.

Mekdi
Mekdi 4 mths ago

There is the urge.
but text us here or do sth else when the urge is there
please do not break no contact. do not

viomakillo
viomakillo 4 mths ago

i remember missing my ex so bad even though the relationship had my body in knots. i’d be shaking, nauseous, couldn’t eat, but i still missed the stupid little happy moments. it’s crazy how the hurt and the nostalgia can exist together like that

Abowen86
Abowen86 4 mths ago

I miss my ex I finally made a folder that I can send everything right down.Anything that comes to my mind that I would send to him

Ventara953
Ventara953 4 mths ago

try doing fun things throughout the day if possible or anything that will distract you from him. I know it's hard because I'm going through it right now, one day I don't think about him at all and the next day I'm full of emotions and sad. Yesterday I just wanted to cry all day but today I have no emotions and haven't thought about him that much. I think it's helped me when I remind myself that I found the strength to block him, this he will not be expecting from me especially. Stay strong and stay positive we can do this together.