My ex jaut saw me with other guy, but we r just friend, should i text him to explain, i felt that i don’t have to, but after our last conversation, it was about he saw me and then asked me out, then he cancelled it last mins, then I’m okay letting him go, then he called me again and asked me out then i felt hurt so i rejected it, the last word he said is that i love you. Everytime i think about it, it hurts so bad :( should i text him and said i’m just friend with that guy, i still love him thou, but i cannot let him disrespect me :(
Last updated on:2025-11-15T03:02:41+05:30
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when he said “i love you,” do you feel like he meant it or like he said it so you’d stay attached? be honest with yourself, not him.
yes i felt that cx his action is otherwise
for me, when someone kept hurting me like that, the best thing was not explaining anything they weren’t entitled to. every time i explained, it dragged me right back into the cycle.
no… don’t tell him anything. He does not deserve an explanation of any sort. Keep going you got this!! ❤️
i had an ex who’d pop in and out like that, say “i love you,” then disappear or cancel last minute. it messed with my head so badly. i remember wanting to explain myself too, even when i didn’t actually do anything wrong. that push and pull hurts in a way i still remember
what did u do with that?