I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. She left and I’m pretty sure she’s blocked me on iMessage. We still follow each other on Instagram and I keep going back and forth about whether I should message her not to try and win her back but just to let her know I still care and wish things could be okay between us.
She once told me she’d always love me that no matter what happened she wanted to stay friends and be part of my life. I believed her. And now suddenly it’s like I’ve been erased.
We were together for about six months and I’ve never felt that kind of closeness with anyone before. She broke up with me a couple of times but we always found our way back to each other reaffirming how much we loved one another. After the last breakup I tried to be honest and open not out of anger but because I wanted to understand. I just wanted a real conversation. But she couldn’t handle it.
She said she wanted to remain friends and I took that as a sign that we were at least on good terms. But then in the middle of a conversation she blocked me. No argument no explanation no closure. Just silence.
Now I’m left here still hoping she’ll come back even though deep down I know it’s not healthy for me. What we had felt so rare so real. I just can’t understand how someone who said all those loving things could disappear like I never mattered. I feel completely shattered.
Last updated on:2025-11-14T18:24:02+05:30
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can i ask… when she blocked you mid-conversation, was it after you brought something up that felt uncomfortable for her? like did she do this pattern of shutting down before?
when i was in that loop of “should i reach out,” what helped me was asking myself if i wanted connection or if i wanted relief. because people who want to stay in your life don’t disappear mid-conversation. sometimes the kindest thing you can do for yourself is sit on the message for a day and see if it still feels right in the morning.
i went through something almost identical with someone who swore up and down she’d always love me and wanted me in her life. then one random afternoon… blocked. no fight. no warning. i remember staring at my phone like i’d just dreamed the whole relationship. that feeling of being erased is unreal. you’re not crazy for being shattered by it
its hard to open up to a person so getting blocked in the middle of it must have felt horrible. being honest if she just blocked without closure she doesn't have the emotional maturity for a relationship do u really wanna be with someone who acts like this?and u said she broke up with u a couple of times so she really doesn't care about u enough to try in this relationship from my pov u were just a fling something she used to pass time but didn't want to put an actual effort in a relationship. u should look back at ur relationship if u were the only one trying just know she isn't for u. this doesn't mean that u r a bad person and u shouldn't ask why she didn't love u this might just mean that she isn't ready for sth this serious