We were dating and then we broke up the first time after 5 months we came back together and he said that he wants us to meat and have a talk about my relationship with him. I agreed to it. on the day of meeting before we even actually met he opened up and told me there was a girl who is pregnant with his child but he does not want to marry that girl and that girl does not want to let him go. He asked me if I would be okay to be in a situation where there is drama from the baby mama. after breaking those news to me we did not meet that day. after some few days I told him that I am not willing to be in such a situation. He said "okay." We have never met up to this day.
Last updated on:2025-11-15T10:08:01+05:30
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when he told you all that, did it feel sudden or did you already sense something was off before?
I thought something was wrong. then he lied about it. I believed the lie. then he later confirmed that what I was thinking was right.
when someone introduces that kind of chaos before y’all even sit down, i take it as my cue to step way back. you choosing peace here makes sense.
the craziest part is that after he told me that he blocked me...
i had a guy drop a whole secret life on me right before we were supposed to meet too. it feels like the ground just disappears. you didn’t deserve to be dragged into that mess at all
and to make matters worse I had told him to tell me if there was any woman outside who would come and say that she has his child and he said there's nothing like that and then on that day of meeting is when he told me that there's a woman who is pregnant
not worth it. he can't even respect the mother of his child, imagine if you one day want kids with him. from experience,they always repeat what they are used to do. even after decades.
He was saying that I am the one he wants to legally marry and not the woman who is pregnant for him. Just saying that he does not want to marry that woman but he is willing to comparent with her and then he marries me. and when I tell him that he should tell me that in the presence of that woman he just said okay.