at this point where I am I just need nothing else apart from having a meetup with him one-on-one and ask him all these questions that I have in my mind and my heart and just understand why he did all that to me... I am just looking for answers
maybe that will make me heal...
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if you did meet him, what’s the one thing you feel you absolutely need to hear from him? like the core question under all the other questions?
I was feeling like asking him why he would hurt me again and again instead of just leaving me once and for all.
and I actually called him and asked him that question. after That I asked him whether he's okay with the way things are right now when we have broken up. and he has said he is okay and I should let things remain the way they are.
every time i’ve gone back for “closure,” it never gave me the full truth i imagined. what helped me more was writing the questions down and noticing what they said about me instead of him.
I just feel so much bitterness and I don't really understand what one thing I did that makes him do me all that... and actually the closure that I would want to have with him is to ask him what exactly I did so that he can do me all that...
i did the same thing with my ex, thinking one last meet up would finally give me the answers and the peace i couldn’t find alone. i remember rehearsing every question. the hurt behind wanting that clarity is so real
I actually was preferring a phone call instead of having a meetup... The feeling is just so crazy... I wonder why we have to go through this in the name of love... Love is not supposed to hurt at all