Hii,I'm Toky and i'm 22 years old today,I just want to ask you if there is a person who feels the same as me because I'm stuck on this.
Me and my ex was in relationship for 1years and 1 months but she secretly cheated on me or she told me that she won't do that and choose him over me because this guys lefts his gf for my ex.
And after that I told her to stop talking to me and wish her the best cause I can't put up with like she wants to change our relationship into friendship (because I've begged so much but finally she didn't choose me)Did I choose the right things??
I'm so depressive guys cause I've planned to marry her,I was very loyal to her,and I've already present her to my mom and I've already meet her mom too(she told me to meet her because she wanted a real relationship so I accepted)
I'm down guys,,please...help💔
Last updated on:2025-11-15T22:58:48+05:30
Comments (19)
I feel you bro. been there. here is my formula Acceptance+ forgiveness+detachment. You have to accept that she did not choose you for you to detach. I know it's hard 👑.but, i believe in you bro.
Thanks broo🙏🏾,it's hard cause I'm down💔
when she asked for friendship, what did that feel like to you? like did it feel genuine or more like she wanted to ease her own guilt?
I've felt like a trash because,I've loved her so much and I couldn't accept to change it into a friendship and her who's already with a boy and me,i'm here,broken and lonely...
I don't really know because,I've just began to choose me,it have been up to her because,her decision doesn't have to do with me anymore😓
Let her go... It's a matter of time before she comes back begging
I've let her because she didn't choose me 💔
@RazzZip701 I am also letting my ex-boyfriend go because he chose another lady who is 3 months pregnant for him
you did the right thing by stepping back. choosing distance isn’t weakness, it’s you protecting whatever is left of you. when i felt like you do, i focused on no contact for a while because friendship right after heartbreak just messed me up worse
No I don't have any Heart anymore just piece of Heart that I have to rebuild it alonee,and it hurts meee🙏🏾
Sometimes,my spirit and my feelings fight and It just drain my energy...💔
i went through something like that when my ex cheated then tried to “stay friends” like it was a consolation prize. i remember meeting her family and thinking it meant something real. that betrayal hits in a DIFFERENT place. i’m really sorry you’re carrying all that on your birthday too
Thank you so much,I don't know what to do anymore..💔
she cheated. you have to move on!
ur mind is tricking you. you should move on.
Maybe we can talk on messenger or whatsapp?
I want to tell more if you would 🙏🏾
@RazzZip701 do u use telegram?
if yes, @mekdest is my handle.
@Mekdi Yess,I use Telegram
@Mekdi But I Didn't see your name(Mekdest)on Telegram 😓
@Mekdi Mine is @TokyRam
@RazzZip701 texted you
@Mekdi my WhatsApp is +254728929009