He is from telling me that I am a girl but I was behaving like I was the boyfriend in the relationship. I am the one who was doing most of the calling most of the texting. that I should have just kept quiet and let him love me...
Last updated on:2025-11-17T18:18:38+05:30
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when someone starts rewriting the story like that, i remind myself their words say more about their own insecurity than about me. if you were reaching out, it’s because you cared. that’s not something to shame.
which insecurity about him do you think he was projecting?
my ex used to say the same thing, like i was “too much” for wanting connection. he’d twist it so my effort made me look desperate. it took me a while to see how backwards that was
when it comes to that I just believe that we loved them more than they loved us
it sounds like you were just being you.
how can you over text your partner I ask? it's not possible. if he loved and cared about you the way you did for him, then he would realise texting several times a day is normal.
you might be better off out of that one, so you can find someone who appreciates you and all your efforts.
keep your chin, head held high and keep fighting as each day it will get easier x
thankss ❤️🩹🫂