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when you think about going back, is it the loneliness talking or do you feel like there’s something unfinished between you two?

me most was getting really honest about how i felt after going back. like remembering the crash instead of the craving. it made the “don’t text them” moments a tiny bit easier.

god i lived that on and off cycle too. every time i went back it felt like hope and then the same pain hit again. breaking that pattern was one of the hardest things i’ve ever done

I have been in and off and on relationship for 2 years. We have broken up two times and got back again two times. this is the third time we are breaking up. and to be very honest with you, It's never gets better. You are just proving to them that you can't be anything without them. they are just coming back to confirm that you are still desperate on them and you can take them back despite what dirt they do to you. It is true that you're just feeding their ego... this is out of my own personal experience...

il tell you from experience I did same for 2yrs. inside it would eat me away. what am I doing. and he was happy enjoying me dieing inside. this feeds thr ego. but when you know his not fully invested in you. you need to suddenly cut out. I did that. it was the best slap I gave without physically touching him. which came by surprise and shock. he got nasty, his true colour came out. he said all the nasty things he had inside came out. I smiled at him even though I was in pain. after he left for good I cried so much, since then I started journaling my pain without speaking about it. today im completely over him. his blocked and im no contact almost 4m.