I have noted something - The more I bring him closer the more detached I get... this is because the more I bring him closer he is becoming open to me and telling me many things which are actually turning me off and making me dislike him and not wanting to be with him again...it's like I am slowly disliking him and getting disgusted by him...
so the more I bring him closer the more detached I get...
Last updated on:2025-11-17T23:16:49+05:30
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what kind of things is he saying that make you feel that instant turn off? like is it new info or stuff you always kind of sensed?
the constant lies... until it has come to my mind that anything he says is a lie
when that happened to me, i stopped forcing closeness and just let the distance happen. sometimes your body’s already done with the story before your mind catches up.
and there's some peace that comes with that
i had an ex where the closer he got, the more i saw the stuff that actually made me sick. like the illusion cracked and i couldn’t unsee it. it’s such a weird painful kind of relief.
absolutely...he's giving you a reason not to be with him...