what do I do???

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so I have gone 93 days NC. I do miss him time to time. this morning I was thinking does he ever miss me. boom he calls me midday demands me to unblock him. I said il see about it like il think about it. he asked for islamic prayer help, I sent him Apps, website then blocked him soon after. I loved him deep. but fear been hurt. I cut him out coz his old GF came back and he treated me like im stupid. did I do this right. I agree I can't put myself thru pain. as she will linger on behind. im not having that no more. im I right or wrong???

Last updated on:2025-11-18T03:43:54+05:30

Comments (9)

loveghost
loveghost 4 mths ago

when he called, did it feel like he missed you or like he just wanted access again? sometimes the energy of the call says a lot.

BoboBun393
BoboBun393 4 mths ago

it was hard to understand he say to be civil and unblock him, then I thought ok let's see so I did then he complained he can't see my profile pic, and asked did i block him again. I am actually playing with him. blocking unblocking to give him frustration

BoboBun393
BoboBun393 4 mths ago

I think he wanted access but I blocked him to wait when he reaches out again, I will play with his mind like he did with me. like a cat and mouse chase. this time im the cat.

ChillPals137
ChillPals137 4 mths ago

You are very right and I'm so proud of you for not fighting over a man with his ex-girlfriend. actually that is my number one rule - I will never fight for a man... I'm so proud of you for not fighting with the ex-girlfriend because of the man and I'm also super proud of you for choosing peace by stepping aside and letting them have their own affair....

BoboBun393
BoboBun393 4 mths ago

thanks again for your motivation means a lot thanks again

Soulscape
Soulscape 4 mths ago

blocking again was the safest move. when someone brings confusion instead of comfort, i usually step back and stay quiet. protecting your heart isn’t wrong, it’s necessary sometimes

BoboBun393
BoboBun393 4 mths ago

I just unblocked him called to understand his mindset,didn't feel no comforting but disturbing so I blocked him again. let him be in his own bubble he created toxic environment. what's thr for me nothing.

brokenInside
brokenInside 4 mths ago

my ex used to pop up RIGHT when i’d start getting my peace back and it messed with my head so bad. i remember that exact mix of missing him but also knowing his crap would break me again. you’re not crazy for feeling torn

BoboBun393
BoboBun393 4 mths ago

soon I mentioned her he flipped