we had to break up because his parents didn't approve of me, and that was the hardest part. knowing that it couldve worked if everyone was okay like we were, and that his parents didn't think i was good enough for him.
but who knows, maybe i wasn't.
but after he told me he had to break up because his parents were so angry with him for talking to me, i was desperate and told him i loved him. and he said and i quote "oh don't worry. that'll pass soon". he didn't even give me the closure i needed before blocking me on absolutely everything possible. and i know he didn't want this and wanted us to work as much as i did, but how was he so okay with leaving us behind, all those months we shared in love with each other?
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i’m wondering… before things went bad, did he ever talk about his parents or how they treated his choices? like was this tension building for a while or did it come out of nowhere for you?
yes we talked about it a lot, but he kept saying he'd make it work. i'm not blaming him at all or anything though, because i know he did try. i just think i shut off the idea that it wouldn't work because of the feeling of getting him back
the part that stands out is how fast he disappeared. that kind of exit never feels fair. but it also says a lot about what he was capable of. when things get this tangled with family pressure and fear, it’s usually not about your worth at all, it’s just about his inability to stand up in the moment. give yourself time to grieve what could’ve been. that’s the part that stings the most.
i went through something kinda close. his family decided i wasn’t “their type” and he just folded. that feeling of being judged by people who never even tried to know you… it messes with your head. and the way yours brushed off your “i love you” like that… damn. that kinda line stays in your chest for a long time. i’m really sorry you had to hear that.
it's okay. i think he was struggling with letting me go as well, but yeah it hurt