you know what's funny? it's like he could sense the day i started moving on with my life. i was the first day I'd had a shower since we broke up, and i actually went out and laughed like a GOOD laugh. and then he texted me that night. it was so great and we started things up, but it ended like it always does. i think i knew in my mind it wouldn't last, but at that moment i didn't care, i was just desperate to feel his love for me again. and now I'm back to square 1, not being able to shower or take care of myself again. and it's got me wondering, was it worth it for those few days of closure and that old comforting feeling, if it just all crashed down again?
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when he reached out that night, what part of you said yes? like was it hope, loneliness, missing the old version of him, or just needing to feel something good for a minute?
i think it was hope. i really thought that this time things would go well, because he actually changed for me the second time around or i just thought that he did
we can go back to the wrong person, over and over and over again, every breakup will hurt, even a lot, but at some point, when you want to reconcile, your body, your mind, even your heart will simply not be able to take it anymore, it will be something your body will be fed up with. I understand that this is a harder time for you, it's been 3 days since my boyfriend and I broke up and it hurts, and I would have done the same thing in your place, because my love is sincere, maybe I'm naive, but that's the truth, you simply did what you felt, don't be too hard on yourself
i hope that that time will come soon, because honestly if he came back again i would probably take him back, and even though I'm ashamed about that i hope i won't feel that way soon. but please reach out if you need any help or just someone to talk to!
@chloebug7 just do what you feel and don't feel guilty about it, I really support you and I think everything will be fine. And thank you for your kindness, if you want to talk to someone, I'm available anytime
i get why you went back. we all do it for that hit of comfort. the only thing that’s helped me is reminding myself that the “few good days” always come with a cost, and that cost usually wrecks me way worse. doesn’t make it easier, but it keeps me from texting back.
i just wanted to feel normal, because he had become so comfortable to me that life didn't feel the same without him, like a hole in my heart and life
my ex used to pop up every single time i finally had a tiny bit of peace. like the universe tested me or something. i remember dragging myself out of bed one day, washed my hair for the first time in forever, laughed with a friend… and boom, he called that night. i went right back even though i knew exactly how it would end. the crash after was brutal. i’m really sorry you’re in that loop too
it's okay, i think we're done for good now. and while part of me hates that and just wishes he'd come back and be the best version of himself for me, i know we can't do that
It's better to let him go and not contact him at any cost because once you start talking you will never want to leave that feeling. so no contact works. even though it seems hard now. It will be easy on you as time passes
it's mostly hard because he blocked me on everything. so now i don't feel strong for not texting him. even though there is no way that i could